Can I use estate planning to formalize informal lending among family members?

Family lending is incredibly common—a helping hand with a down payment, a loan for a business venture, or simply bridging a financial gap. However, these informal arrangements often lack clear documentation, leading to misunderstandings, tax implications, and even strained relationships when it comes time for repayment or inheritance. Estate planning offers a powerful avenue to formalize these loans, protecting both the lender and the borrower and ensuring a smooth transfer of assets.

What Happens if Family Loans Aren’t Properly Documented?

Without a properly documented promissory note and inclusion within your estate plan, the IRS might view a “loan” as a gift. Gifts exceeding the annual gift tax exclusion ($18,000 per recipient in 2024) can trigger gift tax liabilities and reduce your lifetime estate tax exemption. Furthermore, if the loan isn’t considered legitimate by the IRS, the value of the ‘loan’ could be included in your taxable estate. I once worked with a client, Susan, who had lent her son $50,000 to start a business. There was no written agreement. When Susan passed away, the IRS categorized the funds as a gift, creating a significant tax burden for her estate and causing considerable stress for her family.

How Can a Promissory Note Help?

A promissory note is a legally binding document outlining the terms of the loan: the principal amount, interest rate (even a minimal one is advisable to demonstrate a legitimate loan), repayment schedule, and default provisions. It’s crucial to treat this as a genuine loan—requiring regular payments, even if they’re small, and documenting all transactions. The note should be properly executed and acknowledged. Including the promissory note as an exhibit to your trust or will demonstrates your intention and provides clear instructions for its handling upon your death. This protects both the estate and the borrower, ensuring a clear understanding of the outstanding debt and its proper handling.

What Role Does My Trust or Will Play?

Your estate planning documents should specifically address these family loans. The trust or will should acknowledge the existence of the promissory note, identify the borrower, and state how the debt will be handled. Options include requiring the borrower to continue making payments to the estate, forgiving the debt (which may have tax implications), or selling the debt to another party. It is vital to follow the California Prudent Investor Act when handling these assets, ensuring that all decisions are made with the best interests of the beneficiaries in mind. I recently assisted Michael, who had several informal loans to family members. By incorporating these loans into his trust and specifying a clear repayment plan, we were able to avoid family disputes and protect his estate from unnecessary tax liabilities.

What About Forgiveness of Debt?

Forgiving a family loan can be a generous act, but it’s essential to understand the tax consequences. The forgiven amount is generally considered taxable income to the borrower. However, there are exceptions—for example, the IRS allows for a certain amount of debt forgiveness each year without triggering tax liability. Careful planning can minimize the tax impact. If you intend to forgive a debt, document this intention clearly in your estate planning documents and consider strategies to offset the tax burden, such as spreading the forgiveness over several years. This is particularly important in California, where, although there is no state estate tax, federal estate tax considerations still apply.

Remember, California is a community property state, meaning all assets acquired during marriage are owned equally by both spouses. This means that a loan made *to* a spouse during marriage could be considered community property, subject to division in a divorce, or subject to the “double step-up” in basis upon the death of a spouse, potentially offering significant tax benefits. Formal probate is required for estates over $184,500, and the fees associated with probate can be substantial—often a percentage of the estate’s value. Therefore, proper estate planning, including addressing family loans, can save your loved ones significant time, money, and stress.

Whether you’re creating a formal will (signed and witnessed by two people at the same time) or a holographic will (written entirely in your own handwriting), the details regarding family loans must be clearly documented. Similarly, any no-contest clause in your will or trust will only be enforced if a beneficiary files a contest without “probable cause”. Don’t forget about digital assets – your estate plan must grant authority to access and manage things like email, social media, and online accounts.

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Contact Steven F. Bliss ESQ. at (951) 363-4949 to discuss your specific needs and ensure your estate plan is comprehensive and legally sound.

Don’t let informal lending create future headaches. Formalize your family loans *today* and secure a lasting legacy of financial stability and peace of mind.